10-Steps Of Misleading People

1. They create a problem for an open-ended (unresolvable) solution that they want.
2. They create a narrative for a desired-conclusion that they want. They fit facts to feelings instead of fitting feelings to facts. The square peg is never going to fit the round whole; therefore, the problem will never be resolved, thus, it can be revisited at a later time.
3. They create ambiguity and confusion so people can’t think critically and question the narrative.
4. When people can’t think critically because of ambiguity and confusion, people will let others do the thinking for them, and will even pay others to do so.
5. When people stop thinking for themselves and others do the thinking for them, others then control people.
6. They teach people self-victimization and engage in blame-shifting for the problem that didn’t exist, because the blamed-party who is not really guilty of doing “nothing” won’t be able to prove that “a negative” never happened.
7. They drag the situation on by continuing the ambiguity and confusion by misrepresenting and gaslighting the situation as difficult to understand, hence difficult to resolve favorably. They use word-salad, mysticism, and spirituality to misrepresent ambiguity and complexity as an indication of sophistication and difficulty.
8. They then offer the a-priori designed solution (for the problem that they created through ambiguity and confusion).
9. They become the savior by making everyone feel good, but more so, by making everyone feel less-bad through their perceived resolution.
10. They Repeat…the most repeated sentence in therapy, coaching, mobs, etc. = See you next week!
    • Cures are not repeatable, therapies and treatments are.
    • Cures = Fitting the glove to the hand.
    • Therapy/treatment = Attempt to fit the square-peg into the round-hole.

Self-Relativity teaches you “how” to think, not “what” to think; so that after the initial learning-curve you become your own coach, and you go on teaching others how to lead their own lives by becoming their own coaches, so that everyone can think for themselves.