Love Conditionality

“Only self-love must be unconditional; being loved or loving others should be without condition.”

Although loving without-condition inherently exists in unconditional self-love as we should love our self unconditionally; loving without-condition means when we get-love or when we give-love, such interpersonal-love must be without-conditions. In other words, we should not choose to love and others should not choose to love us based on meeting certain conditions. Likewise, as long as the basic parameters of our relationship remains within acceptable borders, we should continue to love and be loved without-conditions. Of course, should conditions and circumstance that govern the relationship change drastically from either side; the interaction and level of loving should be considered and evaluated for continuing the relationship. 

Loving and being loved without-condition allows for true emotions of loving to prosper without-condition and/or consequences; however, it also protects against the existence of unfair, controlling or abusive relationships under the guise of unconditionality.

The primary difference between unconditional-love and to love without-condition is to have desire, choice and flexibility to love someone without any conditions or consequences. 

Loving without-condition provides safety of love in a relationship yet it protects against abuse of love.