Toxic Need For Validation

“Narcissist and borderlines are always one validation short of perfection.”

Even if all the people in the world would say “You’re the prettiest, the smartest, and the most successful person in the world”; a narcissist or a borderline will always need just one more validation.

Although narcissists and borderlines are often charming, attractive, and even successful; deep within, they are quite insecure and low self-esteemed. Since narcissists and borderlines are insecure and have a negative self-image, hence why they are always looking externally to get a sense of validation.

Toxic-people are a prime example of why Self-Relativity insists that self-improvement must come from within, and not externally through other-people or other-things. Because if we are not strong, fulfilled, and happy from within, we will always be one person, one compliment, or one material item short of feeling better.

“Wealth, fame and power are simply byproducts of success. True success is measured by the level of your fulfillment.”