Good Advice

True good and caring advice is to tell people what they need to hear, not what they want to hear.

As a central component of the teachings of “Theory of Self-Relativity” and in support of its Mission-Statement “To Live This Improbably Rare Gift Of Life To Its Fullest Possible Potential”, Self-Relativity remains determined to continue to create awareness about the incorrect and often intentionally misleading appeals-to-emotions tactics that are increasingly being deployed in social-media and other publications by motivational, self-help, and leadership teachings that have become ideological and self-serving for their own good and not for the good of people.

The way these subtle yet intentional strategies accomplish their goals is by making people feel good without resolving the underlying issues that are the cause of people’s difficulties and unhappiness. They do so by telling people what makes people feel good; for example, by telling them that others, such as their friends, their lovers, or their leaders are responsible to make their lives better. If one is having a personal-relationship difficulty, it is the responsibility of their partner to make their life better; and if one is having difficulty at their work, it is because they don’t have good leadership at their organization.

However, we must learn to stand responsible for our own life’s matters, because when we take control of our own life and we don’t remain dependent and reliant on others, we will then be able to decide what is good for our Self, and not just sit and wait to see how someone else can make our life better.