Lies & Deceptions

“The biggest lies we hear are the lies we tell our Self; because the easiest person to fool is our Self.”  

Theory of Self-Relativity considers self-deception as one the main enemies for self-improvement. According to Theory of Self-Relativity we self-deceive by creating false-thoughts and fallacious-beliefs so that we can rationalize and support our desired-feelings instead of putting in effort to change the causes of our dislikable and undesired-feelings. We do so by creating false-thoughts and fallacious-beliefs to support our desired-feelings rather than by dealing with our dislikable thoughts that are signaling us dislikable realities that we need to change. We try to fit the square peg of feelings into the round hole of facts; it simply won’t work and the peg will break.

This is why Theory of Self-Relativity insists on Factual-thinking whereby instead of trying to fit facts to our feelings we learn to fit our feelings to facts.