10-Things Toxic Narcissists Say In Personal-Attacks.

If you’re in a relationship, especially a long-term relationship, with a toxic-person such as a narcissist, a borderline, or a sociopath; the following 10 abusive and gaslighting comments are what you will hear which are intended to create confusion, submission, and control.

If you are experiencing any of the following comments in your relationship, be it personal, familial, or other social-interactions, it is time for you to consider getting out as soon as possible.

1. You’re crazy: This is the essence of crazy-making and gaslighting.
2. You need Help: An intimidation tactic intended to create doubt and submission.
3. You’re hallucinating: A crazy-making tactic intended to question one’s own sanity.
4. You need medication: An aggressive, over the top, unqualified, gaslighting comment.
5. You need to see a doctor: An intimidation tactic to derail a person by questioning one’s own sanity.
6. You need to be institutionalized: An aggressive indirect way of calling someone crazy.
7. Everybody’s laughing at you: Classic gaslighting method intended to alter perception of reality.
8. Nobody wants to be with you: A hostile phrase intended to guilt, shame, and intimidate as being dislikable and worthless.
9. Everybody hates you: A completely overpowering statement intended to destroy one’s self-worth and sense of Self as not only being worthless but as a nuisance to others.
10. I feel sorry for you: A passive-aggressive statement intended to shame, guilt, and breakdown a person’s self-worth and self-esteem.

If you are involved in a toxic-relationship and you don’t know how to leave; or if you are having difficulty getting over a toxic-relationship, you can book a one-on-one session with me to discuss your concerns and challenges.

Dr. Vahé Ohanessian is the author of “Theory of Self-Relativity” and the Founder of the “System of Self-Relativity.” Dr. Ohanessian developed Self-Relativity to assist individuals to experience the most effective and enjoyable cognitive-system for personal-development and self-improvement. Dr. Ohanessian is also a multi-decade practicing dentist and is the inventor and Founder of “Bad Breath Institute”; a unique and revolutionary system of services and products for treating halitosis or bad breath. In surveys, bad-breath was identified as the #1 concern in dating.