Censorship & Sanctity
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Alone vs Lonely
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“Instead of trying to change toxic people so they would be kinder to you; fix yourself so that you would never tolerate toxicity.”
Neediness, dependency and insecurity are the main reasons one deals with and tolerates toxic people and toxic relationships.
Whether one’s a leader, an employee or a husband/wife; the reason someone allows toxicity to flourish is because they feel reliant on the person, they need their job or they need the support of the marriage partner materially and/or emotionally.
The only way to stop dealing with toxicity is to minimize dependency on others which could only be achieved by increasing independence, self-reliance and self-confidence so that when toxicity finally begins to show its true colors, you can have the strength and choice to stop it or to move away from it. Hence the reason “Dependency & Reliance” is one of the 10-Enemies of self-improvement and “Independence & Self-Reliance” is one of the 10-Commandments for self-improvement.
