True love shouldn’t hurt. If love hurts that is not love; it’s dependency and neediness. Love hurts because our understanding of love has been incorrect. Love cannot […]
Unrealistic peptalk is the perfect setup for hopelessness and failure. Empty-motivation, positive-thinking and emotional-reasoning are the primary contributors that enable us to lie to our Self; […]
If the message conflicts with how I want to feel; I must attack the messenger. As stated throughout Theory of Self Relativity “Denial & Ignorance” are […]
Instead of trying to change toxic people so they would be kinder to you; fix yourself so that you would never tolerate toxicity. Neediness, dependency and […]
Censorship or sanctity is the last refuge of a person who can’t handle the truth. As discussed throughout Theory of Self-Relativity, the truth is often uncomfortable; […]
I think, therefore I feel, therefore I am. Factual-thinking does not mean to live life like a robot. Factual-thinking allows us to resolve and eliminate cluttering […]
Vulnerability and Courage are overrated.Our ancestors were vulnerable and courageous; we are NOT!We are the entitled offspring living in comfort and safety. In the motivational and […]