Blogs

November 13, 2021

Wisdom

Wisdom is to see reality as how reality is; not as how we want reality to be. As discussed throughout Theory of Self-Relativity, self-deception, which is […]
April 28, 2021

Love Hurts

True love shouldn’t hurt. If love hurts that is not love; it’s dependency and neediness. Love hurts because our understanding of love has been incorrect. Love cannot […]
April 27, 2021

Peptalk

Unrealistic peptalk is the perfect setup for hopelessness and failure. Empty-motivation, positive-thinking and emotional-reasoning are the primary contributors that enable us to lie to our Self; […]
April 26, 2021

Denial 2.0

If the message conflicts with how I want to feel; I must attack the messenger. As stated throughout Theory of Self Relativity “Denial & Ignorance” are […]
April 22, 2021

Toxic People

Instead of trying to change toxic people so they would be kinder to you; fix yourself so that you would never tolerate toxicity. Neediness, dependency and […]
March 31, 2021

Think, Feel, Be.

I think, therefore I feel, therefore I am. Factual-thinking does not mean to live life like a robot. Factual-thinking allows us to resolve and eliminate cluttering […]
March 21, 2021

To Believe vs To Know

When you believe, you assume that you know but you don’t know that you know. In order to create certainty, we must “know”; not believe.  Many […]
March 11, 2021

Vulnerability & Courage

Vulnerability and Courage are overrated.Our ancestors were vulnerable and courageous; we are NOT!We are the entitled offspring living in comfort and safety. In the motivational and […]