Deserve

We only deserve what we create not what others give us; because others will only give us what they think we deserve.

Many incorrectly think/believe that they deserve more than what they’re getting in life hence they feel the Universe is not giving them what they deserve.

A sense of entitlement is a feeling that one carries which is often unfulfilled because it is reliant on others to fulfill the need. When someone places one’s Self in the position of neediness, self-victimization and blame-shifting, such person blames everything and everyone else for his/her lack of fulfillment and happiness. This is why Theory of Self Relativity categorizes “Dependency & Reliance” as one of its 10-Enemies of self-improvement and “Others” as “the most dangerous word ever”.

If you believe that you deserve more than what you are getting in life, then you should become self-reliant and take personal-responsibility to create and obtain what you believe you deserve in life. This is why “Independence & Self-Reliance” as well as “Self-Agency & Personal-Responsibility” are two of the 10-Commandments for self-improvement.