Blogs

June 26, 2022

Feelings vs Thoughts

The need to feel good versus the necessity to think well is the main reason that inhibits change and blocks self-improvement. The truth is often inconvenient […]
November 13, 2021

Wisdom

Wisdom is to see reality as how reality is; not as how we want reality to be. As discussed throughout Theory of Self-Relativity, self-deception, which is […]
July 24, 2021

Closure

The need for closure is self-serving; acceptance is liberating. As discussed in my previous posts in the lineup of subjective emotional needs which do not factually […]
June 20, 2021

Fear of Uncertainty

Fear of unfavorable outcomes guarantees lack of favorable outcomes. “Uncertainty and lack of Control” which is one of Theory of Self Relativity’s 10-Enemies of self-improvement causes […]
June 10, 2021

Change is Natural

To change is natural; to not change is unnatural. As discussed throughout “Theory of Self Relativity,” change is constant, change is consistent and change happens whether […]
May 31, 2021

Knowledge is Power

Knowledge is power; when applied. Although the old adage that knowledge is power has some merit; knowledge without the proper, practical and efficient application of the […]
May 20, 2021

Dreamers vs Achievers

Dreamers are abundant, achievers are scarce; because dreamers see success as an event but achievers experience success as a process. To change, improve and succeed, we […]
May 17, 2021

Fear of Rejection & Failure

If fear of rejection or failure prevents you from trying, you are guaranteeing a NO answer. However, if you try there is the potential for a […]