Nothing to Lose

Be it in business or in personal relationships; “Never enter an interaction if you’re not willing to walk away from the interaction without any results.”

This is why “Complementary; not Completing” is one of Theory of Self Relativity’s 10-Commandments for self-improvement. We must be complete on our own and everything and everyone else must only complement our existence. When we are complete we enter every interaction and every relationship from a perspective of having “nothing to lose” because we are not doing so based on neediness but we are doing so because we have a choice. Hence the reason why “Abundance & Choice” is another one of the 10-Commandments.

Relationships must be additive or at the minimum non-deductive therefore when we approach every interaction and all relationships from the perspective of “nothing to lose”, we will have more control over the relationship therefore others involved in the relationship will also value and respect us more because they will know that we have a choice to walkaway as a complete person should the terms of the interaction or relationship change or become unfavorable for us.

Having “nothing to lose” doesn’t mean being uncompromising; however, before we get to the later stage of compromise, we must first enter from the point of strength so the need for compromise is minimized.

This is why we should be “Independent & Self-Reliant” (another Commandment) because true self-improvement cones from within; not through external-reliance and external-validation.